ELDA – Healing together

I am launching with D’ de Kabal a crowdfunding campaign on Ulule to bring to life ELDA: the first support program for couples after sexual violence.

I am in a relationship with D’ de Kabal.

Our loved ones have known for years. But we had never spoken about it publicly. Out of modesty. Out of a desire to protect our privacy.

Our story is above all that of two survivors of sexual violence, including incest, who met, recognized each other, and found one another. Beyond our connection, we speak the same language, that of former victims with chaotic intimate journeys.

Together, we made our relationship a space for rebuilding. Supported and trained by therapists, we transformed our traumas into expertise.

From this journey, ELDA was born.

WHAT IS ELDA?

ELDA is a support program for couples who want to heal after sexual violence, created by a couple who has been through it.

We’re launching a crowdfunding campaign on Ulule to bring ELDA to life.

The funds will cover the creation of a secure platform, educational content, our professional certification, legal framework, and the time needed to build ELDA.

WHY ELDA?

Because nothing like it exists. Individual therapists support individuals. Couples therapists work on the relationship. But no one supports couples through the specific journey of rebuilding after sexual violence (whether one or both partners are survivors).

We created the program we wish we had found.

FOR WHOM?

For couples where one or both partners are survivors of sexual violence (incest, rape, assault, past domestic violence…) and who want to rebuild their relationship, their intimacy, and their communication.

BY WHOM?

By D’ de Kabal and myself, both incest survivors, trained by Sokhna Fall, a family therapist, victimologist, anthropologist, and vice-president of the association Mémoire Traumatique et Victimologie.

OUR 4 PROGRAMS

We offer:

• 4 programs lasting 4 to 8 weeks depending on your needs
• Video sessions
• Practical tools between sessions
• Secure messaging
• Access to a trauma therapist for comprehensive packages
• Sliding scale pricing: you choose your rate based on your means

SUPPORT THE PROJECT

👉 https://www.ulule.com/elda/

Until April 23.